HelluvaHoax!
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.It's puzzling to me that most here, having been members of the cult, some for many years, have so little empathy for another person who is, essentially, much as they were. While it's necessary to occasionally present information that may be uncomfortable for the person, would not a rational attitude be, mostly, one of patience and (as much as possible) tolerance, with the primary desire being to help? And I know many, in their own way, are trying to help. Yet, too often, the intent seems to be to drive away people who most need our help, because they have some agreement with us at this time. This seems odd to me.
Let's break that down a little. . .
You said: "It's puzzling to me that most here, having been members of the cult, some for many years, have so little empathy for another person who is, essentially, much as they were."
Comment: Who specifically has so little empathy? Me? ITYIWT? What I saw on this thread looked a lot different than the way you describe it. I believe if you re-read the thread you will find that people here simply gave their opinions and then the Indie Scientologist immediately began insulting them by calling them "toxic" and "trolls" and some other choice degradations. It's a discussion board, so why are people not allowed to voice their opinions? It seems the supremely intolerant one is the Indie Scientologist.
You said: "While it's necessary to occasionally present information that may be uncomfortable for the person, would not a rational attitude be, mostly, one of patience and (as much as possible) tolerance, with the primary desire being to help?"
Comment: Sure, I agree with that. For example when the OP began claiming something that they obviously did not know about and had never researched (that Hubbard "canceled the Fair Game policy") several others including myself wrote the actual data that revealed that Hubbard Fair Gamed others at will before, during and after he issued that policy. I wrote a very concise post with citations and links wherein I used the Paulette Cooper example---which you added and amplified in your own post. Did the OP ever respond to any of these posts. I didn't see any response other than personal vitriol about the bad people here, with no specifics. If someone wants to jump on the board and spread Hubbard's propaganda and refuses to respond to factual history and the documents that support it, that sounds a lot like trolling to me. If the OP was interested in discussing Scientology (ostensibly why they showed up) why don't they discuss Scientology. I am highly doubtful that I am the only on this board who doesn't need/want lectures about Scientology from a newbie. That is ridiculous.
You said: "Yet, too often, the intent seems to be to drive away people who most need our help......"
Comment: How is disagreeing or voicing one's own opinion the "intent" to "drive away people"? What is it exactly that was said on this thread that should not have been said? The way i look at it is rather simple. It's an ex-Scientology message board where people have been discussing the GOOD, the BAD and the UGLY about Scientology for over a dozen years. So someone new comes onto the board. Cool! I like old posters and new posters alike. So far so good. But then the newbie starts throwing down fake Scientology talking points and doesn't respond to people correcting them? Okay, that's a little dodgy if you ask me. But then moments later they begin spewing insults against long-time posters on this board? I don't think so, LOL. How is that acceptable behavior. Maybe THEY need to get some manners or at least some courage to have a two-way conversation. As I said, I doubt anyone showed up on this message board to be "handled".
CONCLUSION: New Posters Matter. All Posters Matter. Let the discussions
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