Karakorum
千差万別
I bumped into this idea at a C.Shelton vid. If you click it below, it should take you to the specific timestamp:
For those who don't want to watch the short segment, let me give the key quote Chris: "Cults are primarily a social vehicle. It is not about the belief set, it is about the social dynamics of the group that make it so culty. And of course the abuse that gets piled on and the isolation and control. But that's not as easily executed and carried out if you are not buying into the group as a social thing."
So my question to you guys - was it really like this for you? Did it make it easier or harder for you to leave scn?
In my own case, well, I'm a pretty asocial person. I can happily go on for weeks without talking to anyone unless I get bored. That was also true inside and I even got some praise for it "Oh you are so Sea Org proper, down-to-business, none of this chit-chat jibber-jabber nonsense" type of comments. In some ways that's what the SO says it wants people to be.
But they of course say one thing and do the other. They don't want people to be all businesslike. They actively want people to engage in groupthink and "us vs them" and the "we are all in this together", "you are part of the elite, the best of the best chosen few" team-building crap. The same thing spec ops and militarizes around the world do.
So in some sense, my stand-offish-ness made it easier to leave the cult not just because I did not have much respect for the management, but also because I had very few close ties that I was afraid to sever.
And yet after all else was done the very last thing that was on my mind when I was about to defect was: "Damn, my team is gonna take a hit. I don't like the idea of making my guys suffer because I left".
That "we are all in this together" espirit de corps? Worked on me and even when I was leaving.
For those who don't want to watch the short segment, let me give the key quote Chris: "Cults are primarily a social vehicle. It is not about the belief set, it is about the social dynamics of the group that make it so culty. And of course the abuse that gets piled on and the isolation and control. But that's not as easily executed and carried out if you are not buying into the group as a social thing."
So my question to you guys - was it really like this for you? Did it make it easier or harder for you to leave scn?
In my own case, well, I'm a pretty asocial person. I can happily go on for weeks without talking to anyone unless I get bored. That was also true inside and I even got some praise for it "Oh you are so Sea Org proper, down-to-business, none of this chit-chat jibber-jabber nonsense" type of comments. In some ways that's what the SO says it wants people to be.
But they of course say one thing and do the other. They don't want people to be all businesslike. They actively want people to engage in groupthink and "us vs them" and the "we are all in this together", "you are part of the elite, the best of the best chosen few" team-building crap. The same thing spec ops and militarizes around the world do.
So in some sense, my stand-offish-ness made it easier to leave the cult not just because I did not have much respect for the management, but also because I had very few close ties that I was afraid to sever.
And yet after all else was done the very last thing that was on my mind when I was about to defect was: "Damn, my team is gonna take a hit. I don't like the idea of making my guys suffer because I left".
That "we are all in this together" espirit de corps? Worked on me and even when I was leaving.