mimsey borogrove
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Hi - I think he told them all it was an attempt to get money from him, the sex was consensual or something along those lines. Certainly not having drugged so many women (minimum of 10 per Aaron)
I think however there's another side to this.
He was accused of jack hammering, some were in pain or bleeding from their ansus', he'd spit on one and called her white trash. His donkey punch moniker. The no touch the hair rule. Expecting sex whenever he wanted it. Aggressive sex.
What's up with all that?
Sex & Narcissists: 9 Things to Be Aware of
Published: February 24, 2022
While sex with a narcissist is initially romantic and passionate, it often turns one-sided, transactional, and potentially even aggressive. Sexual narcissists prioritize their own sexual satisfaction and needs, lack empathy for their sexual partners, expect frequent praise on their sexual performance, and feel entitled to sex when and where they want it.
The sexual narcissist may rush sexual intimacy and even go to great lengths in the first sexual encounters to prioritize their partner’s pleasure. While narcissistic sexual behavior may at first seem romantic and passionate, it inevitably turns one-sided, egocentric, unempathetic, transactional, and aggressive.
Sexual narcissistic behavior often involves the following signs:
1. Prioritizing One’s Own Sexual Satisfaction
Sexual narcissists are preoccupied with their own satisfaction, ignoring the needs of their sexual partner. When their partner does express a sexual need or preference, the sexual narcissist may ignore the request or accuse their partner of being controlling or selfish.
2. Reporting They Aren’t Sexually Satisfied
While sexual narcissists will go to great lengths to prioritize their own sexual satisfaction, they tend to report low sexual satisfaction and place the blame on their partners. They may judge or criticize their partner’s performance or suggest that sex has become boring and needs to change in order to meet the sexual narcissist’s sexual needs. Sexual narcissists may hint (or even overtly threaten) that they will look elsewhere for satisfaction if their partner can’t step it up.
5. Hypersensitivity to Criticism
Sexual narcissists are hypersensitive to criticism about their sexual performance and bodies. When confronted with a suggestion to change positions during sex or move at a different pace, they may ignore or appear disinterested in the feedback, when in reality they experience it as a narcissistic injury. In some cases, perceived criticism will trigger narcissistic rage which involves an outburst of aggression and violence.
6. Aggression or Violence
While aggression during sex for some may be perfectly healthy (e.g., for partners engaging in BDSM), it may indicate someone is a sexual narcissist if they are performing unwanted sexual contact, sexual coercion, or rape.7 Aggression may happen periodically as the result of narcissistic rage, or it’s possible the sexual narcissist prefers all sexual encounters to be aggressive in nature.
8. A Sense of Entitlement to Sex
Sexual narcissists expect to get what they want during sex, even when what they want is unreasonable or nonconsensual. They often believe they are owed or deserving of sexual favors and demand that their partners perform certain sexual activities and comply with their expectations.8 If you don’t give in to their demands, they may retaliate with aggression, threats of having sex with someone else, or “the silent treatment.”
9. Exploitation
Sexual narcissists often view people in their lives as objects to meet their sexual needs, which may mean doing anything necessary to reach that goal. Some sexual narcissists collect and threaten blackmail (e.g., sexual photos or videos), tell their partners they would be “nothing” without sex with the narcissist, or guilt their partners into performing sexually.
Impacts of Sex With a Narcissist
If you’re intimate with a sexual narcissist, you may chronically feel “not good enough,” regardless of how you perform sexually. You may develop negative body image, have patterns of self-invalidation, and experience shame and low self-worth. Long-term, sex with a narcissist may lead to difficulty trusting future sexual partners, trauma symptoms, or even the development of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
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Sex With a Narcissist: 9 Things to Be Aware of
While sex with a narcissist is initially romantic and passionate, it often turns one-sided, transactional, and potentially even aggressive. Narcissists prioritize their sexual satisfaction and needs, lack empathy for their partners, and expect constant praise for their performance. They feel...
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