I just noticed that there are new videos here on all of this messy relationship/breakup.
I prefer "summaries" too, so I'll just pass along a couple that I found extremely helpful in trying to make sense out of this dueling-influencer warfare:
"Some people did something."
—Ilhan Omar
"It may be the case that both parties (having grown up
in the cult of scientology) are more than likely to
have missed out entirely on certain vital parts of
the "growing up" routing form. To wit, the part
where there are countless dating & relationship
encounters, experiences, dates, fights, break-ups,
broken vows, getting trashed, trashing others,
hearts, sorrow, regrets, love-turned-hate and/or
visits and pit-stops to an impressive array of
emotional "tones". So, it follows then that it
would not be surprising at all if the parties are
now cycling back---and hopefully thru the many
vital leçons d'amour ('lessons of love') that
normally occur before one ultimately finds a
wonderful and stable relationship
with another person."
—Don Hubbard
(Discounted Metal Etchings, Color Palette Consultant & Marriage Counselor)
Here's another theory that is so nonsensical and ridiculously absurd that it could never happen in real life. Once upon a time, someone I was extremely close to went thru an absolutely savage marital breakup. My person (normally a very strong and determined individual) was devastated. Worse still, they could NOT crawl out from the emotional avalanche they were buried under. Hence they did what people do in those situations. Talk about it. Endlessly. To everyone. 24 Hours a day. Most of the chatter was filled with regrets, rage, revenge and recurring & repeating rants. It was exhausting to spend time with them because listening to all this seemed to help lift their spirits, but then (even after hours of chatting) a short time later (hours or minutes) dive right back into the wreckage. They could not escape it. Naturally, since they were both Scientologists at that time other wicked accusations of "SP" and far worse were flying in the endless KRs. Hideous hate-fest, that's what it was. After some time passed my person was miraculously began finding their way back into life/work.
So, where's the crazy part, you are asking?
Yeah. So, then my person somehow DOVE BACK INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP headfirst. All the hate and
blindingly wicked accusations and character assassinations from both sides suddenly ceased. They were back together!!!
Yeah. There's more. Because I had been the "Loyal Listener" during the deep trauma stage, I necessarily agreed with all the horridly hateful accusations my person was flinging. ("Sure you're right about that, they sure ARE an insanely psychotic SP!" )
So, then I was under attack from my person. Because I had said so many despicable things (by agreeing with them). LOL LOL LOL LOL
I was the new SP (probably the 3rd party too, right?).
See how these things go?
That's why i would not be surprised if Aaron and his former flame got back together and got married.
Insane, aren't I?
But the story I told was 100% true.
In case you are wondering what ever happened to the "back together soul mates" I related above, it's quite interesting. Some time (less than a year, if i recall correctly) those two broke up again and this time it was even uglier. They both tried to destroy the reputation of the other and more unseemly behavior.
And it turns out (my opinion) that my person's parter WAS crazy and evil too.
LESSON OF THIS STORY: I don't know. I guess the lesson is that Saints turn out to be SPs and SPs turn out to be Saints---all depending on which chapter in the book you happen to be reading at any given moment.
"The first breakup never takes"
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