Hooked by the ideal. Too young to understand the dangers. One day she'll wake up that there are no clears and that she has wasted her life and her chance to have the family she wanted. Yes, very sad indeed.
"I always wanted to be a super hero." Sorry but super heroes are a fiction. Guiding you life based on delusion doesn't often turn out well.
I hope she finds out quickly that she's been lied to and quits fast.