In my book on ethics I go into detail about the four basic ethics styles of play. In short, these are:
win/win (I win, you win)
win/lose (I win, you lose)
lose/win (I lose, you win)
lose/lose (I lose, you lose)
Most (not all) rich people became rich by playing win/lose.
Most (not all) spiritual...
Up to a point 'actual goals' still are a strong barrier to full OT. Notice that I wrote 'actual goals' rather than 'actual GPMs' or 'own GPMs'. In the acronym GPM (Goals Problems Mass) the word Goals is a modifier, not the noun; so also is Problems a modifier. The noun is Mass, i.e. mental mass...